Inviting Intimacy

Discover a deeper level of intimacy with yourself and in all aspects of your life

30th May - 1st June 2025

At The Subud Hall, Bristol

Led by Ed Rooke & Bethan Evans

This weekend workshop offers a gentle, insightful introduction to the realm of Living Tantra; the art of living from a place of deep intimacy with all aspects of your being.

To be intimate with others we must first become intimate with ourselves;

to listen closely to our inner world on all levels and to welcome what we find.

When we become familiar and comfortable with our feelings, thoughts and emotions we can bring the whole of ourselves into our relating with others - even the bits that we feel awkward about.

This is what builds true intimacy: Having the courage & honesty to show our wants & needs, to voice our true “yes” and “no”, so that we can enter into connection with trust and acceptance of both ourselves and the other.

We’ll be exploring what it is to truly honour yourself and the others you meet, to express your needs, and to only explore with touch in a way that is fully nourishing for you.

By gently opening with curiosity and acceptance for all that arises within, we will be supporting you to be met and appreciated as you are, so that you can find a relaxed, confident and natural expression of intimacy in all of life. 

The weekend is suitable for all - single people and couples, you are all welcome.

  • “The most well "held" workshop I have ever attended. The container for the work felt so very strong and safe - I had this deep sense that yes it really is the case that all parts of myself are welcome. Loved it, loved it, loved it!”

    L.T. Bristol

  • “It was wonderful to witness each person's face, body and posture awaken and soften throughout the course of the weekend as we tapped into and released the fearful, guarded and unmet places within that create barriers to feeling fully alive and truly met, supported and 'seen' in life and love.”

    Anonymous

  • “It has been a long time since I have generated such beautiful tears of joy and self love. A friend recently described me as spiralling upwards. This has been a super charge experience."

    Anonymous

  • "I came away feeling relaxed & refreshed and my perspective of relationships changed."

  • "Very challenging and heart opening way to explore connection. Thank you for holding the space in such a welcoming and accepting way."

  • “I have opened up a greater sense in me of love, compassion , self-respect and I’m more alive than I have been in many, many years. Also at 61 years old. You are never too old to awaken more into yourself and to others.”

    Karrie

More about the work we offer…

Watch this video to find out more ->

The benefits you can get from this workshop are:

  • A deeper connection with yourself and others

  • Increased self-confidence

  • Resensitising to tune into a felt sense of what you need

  • Knowing your boundaries and learning to voice them

  • Expressing your needs and wants

  • Discovering different types of touch

  • A deeper knowing of the value you bring

  • Self-love and self-acceptance

Timings

Friday 7.00 - 10.00pm

Saturday 10.00am - 9.30pm

Sunday 10.00am - 4.00pm

We always ensure there a sufficient lunch and tea breaks during each day

About Ed

Believe me, I know what it is like to be stuck, numb and without feeling. And I also know just how empowering it is to find healing, connection and freedom. That is why this work is so important to me.

My journey with this work started young; in my early 20s my emotional blocks led me to be debilitated by a chronic illness. At this age, it seemed like the worst thing; it totally destroyed the life I had. With hindsight, it was the catalyst for transformation into a richness of life I never knew was possible. 

As I began to engage on a meditative path, I began to realise that I have a unique sensitivity for tuning into the very subtle on a feeling level. For noticing the places which might otherwise be missed; the lost frozen places within each of us which are ever so faintly crying out for love. And for tuning into the environment and resources that are needed for what has been lost to come home

I have spent many years training extensively with various masters, including Stephen Gilligan, Jan Day and Mateo Tabatabai, as well as more formal training (Doctorate in Psychology, Cert in Hypnotherapy, etc).

My facilitation weaves together aspects of tantra and shadow work to guide people to connect with their natural aliveness and resources, so they can be more fully themselves in all aspects of their life.

Read more about Ed

About Bethan

During a first career in the helping professions Bethan was drawn to Alexander Technique and later to Shadow Work and Tantra, all of which helped her deal with personal challenges such as bereavement, depression and a sense of not belonging. People appreciate the safety they feel during sessions and workshops, Bethan’s clarity and her ability to ‘meet’ & hold them in all sorts of feeling states.

Over time she has trained and practiced as an Alexander Technique teacher, a Shadow Work coach and with renowned relationship expert Jan Day in her School of Being.
She continues to study with Jan Day and with Joanna Watters (“Supporting a radical acceptance of present moment reality”)

  • “It was wonderful to witness each person's face, body and posture awaken and soften throughout the course of the weekend as we tapped into and released the fearful, guarded and unmet places within that create barriers to feeling fully alive and truly met, supported and 'seen' in life and love.”

    Anonymous

  • “I have opened up a greater sense in me of love, compassion , self-respect and I’m more alive than I have been in many, many years. Also at 61 years old. You are never too old to awaken more into yourself and to others.”

    Karrie

  • “It has been a long time since I have generated such beautiful tears of joy and self love. A friend recently described me as spiralling upwards. This has been a super charge experience."

    Anonymous

  • "I came away feeling relaxed & refreshed and my perspective of relationships changed."

  • "Very challenging and heart opening way to explore connection. Thank you for holding the space in such a welcoming and accepting way."

  • “The most well "held" workshop I have ever attended. The container for the work felt so very strong and safe - I had this deep sense that yes it really is the case that all parts of myself are welcome. Loved it, loved it, loved it!”

    L.T. Bristol

Fee

Full price £225

Early bird price £195

Limited number of tickets available until 6/5/25

Super Early bird Price £175

Limited number of tickets available until 6/4/25

2-together tickets £390

Book two standard price full weekend tickets at the same time for your £60 discount - pay only £390 for two people. Limited number of 2-together tickets available until they sell out.

 FAQs

 
  • Subud Hall is located in the centre of Bristol at the top of ‘White Ladies Road’.

    The address is;

    29 Wesley Pl, Clifton, Bristol BS8 2YD

    And you can see a google maps pin here;

    https://maps.app.goo.gl/stwBv8vZxwRGMLd1A

  • Although we do arrange liftshares on our residential workshops, unfortunately we don't offer this for non-residential workshops currently.

  • We suggest bringing:
    - a water bottle and a packed lunch, although there are cafes near by;
    - a cushion or meditation chair to sit on, if it's easy to bring it with you;
    - a pen and notepad or journal.

 Do you have other questions that aren’t answered here?

Living Tantra

Living Tantra is a series of sexuality and intimacy workshops that begins with Living Tantra 1. Living Tantra was developed by Jan Day.

The Living Tantra Training offers an opportunity to explore more deeply into the realms of ecstatic loving, sexual intimacy and sacred union so that you can learn to have healthy, satisfying relationships. 

For more about Jan Day & Living Tantra

janday.com